The Power of Simple Moments

July 15, 2024

The Power of Simple Moments: How a Staycation Transformed My Perspective

Have you ever realized that what you needed was right in front of you the entire time? Our minds often play tricks on us, convincing us that we need grand gestures and elaborate plans to find fulfillment and recharge. But sometimes, the simplest experiences hold the most profound impact.


For months, my brain insisted that a big vacation was essential for me to recharge and continue leading effectively. The narrative was clear: "To feel rejuvenated, our family must go out of the country." But was this really true, or was I just buying into a self-imposed myth?

Don't get me wrong, traveling abroad is a fantastic opportunity. However, there are many other ways to recharge, refocus, and reframe your thinking. This realization hit me during a local family reunion with my wife's family this past week, and it was nothing short of amazing.


Why was it amazing? It was about more than just reconnecting with family, hearing stories passed down through generations, and making new memories (and yes, I finally learned how to do the Tamia hustle). It was also about the small, intentional actions I took to truly disconnect and be present:


  • Turned My Work Phone Off 
  • I made a conscious decision to disconnect from work completely. Turning off my phone allowed me to be fully present with my family and free from distractions.


  • Left My Computer at Home 
  • Leaving my computer behind meant no late-night emails or sneaking off to get a little work done. It was liberating to focus solely on the moment.


  • Journaled About Gratitude 
  • Each morning, I spent time journaling about what I was grateful for. This simple practice shifted my mindset and set a positive tone for the day.


  • Started Each Day with My Own Agenda 
  • Instead of following a strict schedule, I let the day unfold naturally. This approach allowed for spontaneous and meaningful interactions.


  • Spent Quality Time with My Family 
  • I dedicated time to understanding what my kids liked and didn’t like, engaging in their interests, and truly connecting with them. This was incredibly enlightening and rewarding. 


This experience got me thinking: How can I create these staycation conditions regularly to recharge and commit to enjoying life more fully, rather than working 24/7? Here are a few ideas:


  • Schedule Regular Disconnect Days: Plan days where you completely unplug from work and technology.
  • Practice Daily Gratitude: Incorporate journaling or meditation focused on gratitude into your routine.
  • Prioritize Family Time: Set aside dedicated time each week for family activities and bonding.
  • Embrace Spontaneity: Allow yourself the flexibility to go with the flow and enjoy unplanned moments.
  • Reflect and Adjust: Regularly assess what activities and practices help you recharge, and make adjustments as needed.


So my question today for you is, how can you create a staycation experience this week to reconnect with your loved ones and recharge your spirit?


My challenge for you is to Plan a “disconnect day” this weekend where you turn off your work devices, engage in activities that bring you joy, and spend quality time with your family. Share your experience and insights with us in the comments!


By incorporating these practices into your life, asking yourself the right questions, and taking action, you can create an environment that fosters rejuvenation and balance without traveling abroad. Sometimes, the most powerful experiences are the simplest ones, and they are often right in front of us.


Until we meet again: Be a Leader. Be a Learner. Be Kind. 


  • Dr. Roy Bishop, Jr. 


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