Be Growth Minded
November 20, 2023
Be Growth minded
One Thought for you to consider:
Don't just go through life; grow through life. Have you ever heard the term life happens? I agree because life will happen whether you want it to or not. When I say life, I mean some things in life are outside your circle of control, and sometimes, they will create moments of uncertainty and restlessness. But with the right mindset, you won't just go through life; you will grow through life. Growing through life means you find different ways to maintain a positive outlook, find a support system so you aren't alone, and develop a self-care plan to meet your needs. Before you know it, you will have resources to help you get through the next challenge (unfortunately, there will be more). While growing through whatever comes your way, remember to Be a Leader. Be a Learner. Be Kind.
Two Quotes from Dr. Bishop:
"Through it all... I am... Still Leading! Still Learning! Still being Kind!"
"No one can hold you back from reaching your goals but you. don‘t give anyone else that much power."
One Question for you to answer:
What does GROWING through your current situation look like for you?
(If you need help answering this question, please email me so we can schedule a time to connect one-on-one to help you become the best version of yourself.)
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